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[golden_hawke]

Hmm....

I do not understand why others would claim something normal and natural to be a perversion. It also saddens me to hear that others would rather keep this a secret and are shamed by it.

I may not know all that humans do in terms of love, but I will not hide what information I do know. In terms of medicine, I would urge you to seek the knowledge of the healers.

I am also willing to speak in person as well as over these boxes. I... do understand how afraid people are of their bodies...so I will help in any matter that is comfortable for you.

Comments

[golden_hawke]

It is very sad that a society believes it is not an accepted thing. Secrets are damaging.

[lostwish.livejournal.com]

No one wants to hear about people's personal lives, it's rude to invade their privacy.

I prefer it not accepted...I don't want to hear about it.

[golden_hawke]

There is a difference between learning about an act that happens everywhere and invading one's privacy.


If you do not wish to hear of it, you do not need to. But if others wish to learn, I will not deny them of that knowledge if they ask me.

[lostwish.livejournal.com]

If they're that desperate to learn then they should either read things or go and talk to people privately instead of public announcements.

[golden_hawke]

I understand that. And I cannot control what others will do.


However, people will not know others who can help them unless they ask. And this is a big place. Not everyone knows me, and I certainly do not know everyone here! Sometimes the only way to discover a way to learn something is to ask a large group of people and go from there.

[lostwish.livejournal.com]

Then they should filter their posts or something instead of shouting to the network for everyone to hear.

[golden_hawke]

Have you told people this? Those you are offended by that you would prefer that you not hear what they say?

[lostwish.livejournal.com]

As if they'd listen...

[golden_hawke]

You did not even try then.



-=frowns, and that frown seems to say 'This is what I'm talking about.'=-


[Humans will never learn...]



((Brackets are words in his language, not translatable))

[lostwish.livejournal.com]

Fact of nature...no one listens to people who say things they don't want to hear.

[golden_hawke]

Then if you choose to not put forth effort, you cannot place fault on others for doing or saying things you find undesirable. You can only control your own actions, and if you choose not to protect yourself, or attempt to, then you only have yourself to find fault.

[lostwish.livejournal.com]

That's a lie.

[golden_hawke]

What part do you think is a lie?

[lostwish.livejournal.com]

Controlling your own actions.

[golden_hawke]

I... do not understand. What do you mean?

[lostwish.livejournal.com]

If I could control my own actions I would have had a normal life back home. ...There was no control before and even here...
Strength doesn't come into it.

Telling people to stop doesn't work when everyone looks over you because you're part of the minority or...not well known.

[golden_hawke]

Even if others would not listen to me, I can still hold my head high because I stood up for what I felt was right.

[lostwish.livejournal.com]

I don't see the point anymore...

[golden_hawke]

....


I am sorry to hear that.

[lostwish.livejournal.com]

Hm...Guess that's what comes from being here for so long...

[golden_hawke]

You did not feel this way before you arrived?

[lostwish.livejournal.com]

Before arriving I probably would have tried...now though...

[golden_hawke]

...

You should still try. Do not let being here break you as a person.

[lostwish.livejournal.com]

It already broke me along time ago. Twice.